Relationships...

Sambandh Ne Kyarey Futpatti Ke Aankda Thi Na Mapo. Evu Karti Vakhate Aapne J Mapai Jata Hoiye Chhiye.

(Relationships of all kinds R like sand held in Ur hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, 
the sand remains where it is....
The minute U close Ur hand and squeeze tightly 2 hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers.... 
U may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. 
A relationship is like that.
Held loosely with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, 2 possessively, and the relationship slips...away and is lost..!!)